you were shocked and ashamed to find evidence of your wife’s affairs so carelessly left about the house, but anyone with sense would’ve seen this coming from a mile away. you haven’t sexually satisfied her once in the years you’ve been together. you make a paltry amount of money and have no aspirations beyond the mediocrity you’ve already achieved. It makes perfect sense to Me that she would seek fulfillment elsewhere; she was never going to get it from you. Really, she did you a favor. Now that you know what kind of man she’s actually interested in, you can adjust your behaviors to strive to be better. Let’s discuss the many things he did right, and how you’ll never measure up.