I've never been a fan of whips and chains. Physical pain inflicted upon subs as a means of control seems so... old-school. I'm a more modern domme. I love mental pain, psychological torment, the utter destruction of who a sub IS. Fucking with you and destroying your ego brings me such gratification. Tearing you apart with my words, scarring you permanently, is so much more satisfying than a quick kick to your balls. One of my favorite forms of torment is forbidding you from touching yourself... and teasing you HARD with my body. Don't I look delicious in my minidress? Irresistible. It pains you to be to horny for me, yet not allowed to do anything about it. You're squirming, already dreading the blue balls. That's okay. Humiliation is supposed to hurt.